Cambridge, and why it will always have such a special place in my heart – travel linkup

When you’re an expat, surprise marriage proposals often can’t factor into the romance of a relationship – for us it was more of an ‘oh, hey, I know that you didn’t want any serious relationships whilst you were travelling, but we seemed to have ended up in one. Where should we go with it?’ type of discussion.

What to do in Cambridge England

It involves a lot of heart searching, quite monumental decision making
and the knowledge that as much as you’ll miss the beaches of your home
country, you’ll one day come to enjoy the rain. For me it wasn’t a quick
decision, but rather an easy one – not intending to get all smooshy
& what have you – sometimes you just find your best friend without
intending to, and marriage turns out to be much less scary that you
think it will be.

 What to do in Cambridge England

As we couldn’t do the traditional surprise proposal in a breathtakingly
romantic location, my better half decided that he would make it special,
our style. He first called my Dad in secret to officially ask for
permission (feminists, yes, in this day and age it’s unnecessary – even
more so when your Dad’s alleged shotgun is literally on the other side
of the planet) as per tradition.

What to do in Cambridge England

He then planned a weekend away for the two of us to a secret UK location
and squirrelled away a batch of plans. To my utter delight, we boarded a
train bound for Ely and checked into a sweet B&B (it was out of
season, but the owner hearing about the plans for the weekend kindly
allowed us to stay anyway). We awoke on the Saturday morning to
reluctant sunshine and despite Mr Kiwi’s best efforts to steer us
towards Ely Cathedral, I convinced him that we should enjoy the sun and
pop into Cambridge for a touch of punting.

What to do in Cambridge England

At the time I was volunteering/working for the Churches Conservation
Trust (a charity body that takes churches of architectural and special note that
have lost their parishes and cares for them) and I knew that Cambridge
had one of exceptional beauty. We walked into All Saints Church and began
to drift through the nave, admiring the beautifully painted walls and
just enjoying a quiet moment. Cue my shock as at the head of the aisle
my beau sinks to one knee, extends a little velvet box and asks me to
marry him.

What to do in Cambridge England

 Approximately right here.

I knew it was coming at some point (see above) but it still hadn’t prepared me for the real situation, and I may have panicked slightly (to the confused amusement of the European family who had wandered into the church behind us) and said no. In fact I didn’t just say no, but told him in a crazy manner “don’t ask me, don’t ask me, I’m going to say noooo!”.

What to do in Cambridge England

Luckily, knowing me better than I know myself, my nervous would-be fiancé just laughed and re-offered me the beautiful engagement ring specially made for us by a family friend (and retired jeweller). We celebrated my eventual ‘yes of course I will!’ with a glass of bubbly, a punt down the Cam complete with wise-cracking guide and a romantic evening meal on the outskirts of Ely.

What to do in Cambridge England

What to do in Cambridge England

And that’s the simple reason why the rather cute city of Cambridge will always be special for us, a place that we’ll never forget and somewhere we try to pop back to on occasion to re-live those memories. It was a perfect us moment. (The next day we finally made it to Ely Cathedral where he confessed had been his original spot – though I’m glad of our slight alteration of plans as with an audience I definitely, definitely would have cried!)

What to do in Cambridge England

What to do in Cambridge England


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